      Writing  She is a contributing writer for e-magazine "Radiant Lights", created by Howard Van Schaik, a magazine dedicated to leading with integrity and compassion, leading and guiding people to shine their light in an ever-changing world. To visit the "Radiant Light" website and subscribe now, click on this image >>>  These items are soon to be available in print and greeting card format on this website as well as future articles. Bountiful Balance Balance is essential. It is what creates love. It creates health. It creates abundance in all areas of our life. When putting energy into our career, we must maintain the energy of the intention of what we are trying to create. As we get occupied with the “business” of our business, it is easy to shift too far from the energy of our intention and then we wonder why things are not evolving as we desire. Emotion is a feminine… a yin energy. When women feel desire in our hearts, it can be confusing and frustrating when the results showing up do not match. So how do we shift? Everything is energy. The energy which vibrates at the core of our business will determine what shows up around it. For example, if the nature of the business is health, and those running the business vibrate health and give attention to the well being of the staff, health will resonate from the business and therefore attract those searching for health. If the business is one of creating connections, the more this energy resonates among those who operate the business, the more this will be felt by those who are searching for connection and they will be drawn to it; abundance will then be a symptom of this connection, balanced with the attention given to the logistic details. In relationships, if we wish to offer and receive love, we must first feel it for ourselves. I see so many men and women experience unhappiness through self judgment. For women to experience balance in relationship, we must connect with our inner masculine. We must be what we wish to experience. Divine Masculine energy, otherwise known as the Healthy Masculine is the energy of witnessing without judgment, holding space and providing safety. When we connect to our inner Divine Masculine, we cease to judge ourselves. When he does not show up, we feel lack of self worth and the partner we desire in the flesh does not show up either. The definition of Divine is “God like; heavenly”. Our inner Divine Masculine would never judge. Feel that part of you within. Witness and transform your experience to wisdom rather than judging yourself for your actions or choices. This is a freeing place to live. Freedom is very important to the masculine. When women feel this freedom, men find them very attractive. Freedom is as important to the masculine as love is to the feminine. Divine Feminine is the feminine aspect of God Source; it is the energy of love, compassion, nurturing, creative expression and inspiration. When women take action from this place, we are radiant and at our most powerful. When a man witnesses a woman without judgment, when she feels safe in his presence and he carries a sense of purpose, this man is very attractive to her. As we explore, understand and dance this balance of the Masculine and Feminine, we experience joy in relationship with both self and one another. Yes, balance is the secret to life and it is essential to experience enjoyment during our stay here on planet Earth. It’s not something we can go get. It is a product of our awareness of what is and our acceptance of it. We are very aware when things are out of balance, instead of flow, we experience frustration. As least through frustration we are usually motivated to take some kind of action to shift the reality we are in to one that feels better. We may rant and kick and scream for a bit as we are figuring it out, but at least we are moving the energy. This is our opportunity to take a really close look at what is showing up in our world and what has caused things to be the way they are. So, how do we shift from this frustration to a feeling of flow? We have to accept what is and cease pushing against it. Take a look at our situation as if we’re on the outside looking in and for a moment detach from the emotion around it and be really truthful with ourselves. Become aware of the pattern we’ve created to be in this place from which we want to shift away from. I’ve experienced some frustration lately as I am being audited by the government again. I’ve become very aware that I need to hire an assistant to bring some kind of order to the chaos in my life known as paper work and everything connected to it. I’ve accepted that this is not my gift and if left up to me, it will always be in chaos. I’ve educated myself enough that I know how to do it, so I can oversee it, but I am aware that until I transform this chaos into organization, the clutter it creates in my life will continue to attract experiences such as an audit. In my awareness and acceptance that my next step was to find an assistant, the ideal person quickly showed up in my life, in fact it is my neighbor who lives just a few feet across the hall from me. She has all the specialties I am looking for, bookkeeping, accounting, administration, social media networking and she even has experience handling logistics at seminars and workshops, and I really like her, and her hours at work recently got cut, so she’s been looking for something new to fill the space. So beautifully the Universe provides when we are aware enough to receive it. Had I chosen to wallow in frustration, I would have been blind to the fact that the solution to my problem was at my doorstep… literally! Ahhh, I can feel the relief as my paper life begins shifting its way into balance.
Getting out in nature is a
wonderful way to bring balance to our lives.
It provides us with the space to quiet our mind, so we can raise our
awareness of what is. We are spiritual beings living in a physical body on this
physical planet Earth. Take advantage of
the abundance Mother Earth offers us and we will feel nurtured. Savor her
beauty, get out and play with her and we will feel the balance of peace within
our spirit. 
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